When we were little kids we had all kind of ideas of what we wanted to be but very few of us ended up being that person. Some wanted to be a fireman, doctor, nurse, teacher why, because those were the people we came in contact with. The truth is we should have looked at what we enjoyed doing to as children and pursued that.
Is it too late to do now? Of course not but you need to be focused in the process. It will take a little reflection and memory searching to find out what you enjoyed. An easy way to speed up the process is to ask people who are old enough to remember what you enjoyed. That person might have been an uncle, parent, or grandparent, make sure it is someone who spent a lot of time with you growing up.
Tap into that knowledge and use it to your best advantage. After you discover what you enjoyed apply it to your current life and think of how that would apply. One of the things that helped me in this process was the book Strength Finders 2.0. Reading this book and taking the test in the back will reveal your top 5 strengths. You want to make sure that you purchase the book new, because the test in the back of the book is only good to use once. With this information you can take an objective look at your life and discover how you can apply your strengths.
Working from a position of strength makes you more productive and confidant. You feel empowered when you are using your strengths. Do not spend time on your weaknesses. You may have to develop a process to manage them but do not spend time trying to improve them. You will get more leverage by spending time focused of developing your strengths.
I would be happy to help you in your strength finding journey. I recommend that you purchase the book and give me a call after you have taken the test. Send me an e mail or a message on my contact form to tell me what your top 5 strengths are. I would be happy to work with you.